Friends and family- All of your offers of help are very appreciated. Dana will definitely take advantage of them when the time is right for her. Thank you again for the abundance of love, support and offers to help during such a difficult time.
Al Goldstein's speech from the Atlanta memorial service:
Al Goldstein's speech from the Atlanta memorial service:
My friend Ron
When I first moved back to Atlanta, I was introduced to Ron. We had a brief conversation, and I thought nothing more about it. A couple of days later I received a phone call from Ron asking me if I would like to come out on his boat. I thought “wow” he must think I’m a pretty cool guy if he just met me, and invited me out on his boat. Needless to say, I was wrong. Ron was like this with everyone. He always gave people a chance.
I would like to share some of my stories about Ron with all of you. As a lot of you may or may not know, Ron was one of the world’s slowest eaters. He would order a plate of nachos at the beginning of a football game, and not finish them until at least halftime. One time a group of us went bowling, and Ron ordered a small plate of french fries. It literally took him to almost the 4th game to finish those fries, and I know to this day he did this just to tick me off.
As a lot of you are aware, Ron loved a good bargain. He would call me up and say Al, I got a great deal on a shirt, and you have to go to such and such store. And, he would always call me excited when he had a buy one get one coupon for lunch. Ron would say Al, let’s meet for lunch...I’ve got a buy one get one!
Ron and I shared the love of bad horror movies and loud music. I always knew if I did not know a character in a movie or the name of a song Ron would be able to give me the answer. Ron had a great mind for stats and trivia.
I remember when Ron and Dana got engaged. He called me up, and said Hi, Al what are you up to? I said nothing, what are you doing? He said Dana and I just got back from a weekend at a bed and breakfast. I said how was it? Ron said it was great! We had a nice room; we went to dinner, got engaged, went for a walk, went to breakfast and went shopping. I said what! Take a step back....what did you say? Ron said...We had a nice dinner. I said....no after that? Ron said we got engaged.
I remember when Dana was pregnant along with my wife Lisa. We all registered at Babies R Us. They convinced me to go on a baby tour. After a while, I was ready to run out the door of the store. Ron told me it’s going to be ok, walked me over to a rocking chair, and told me to sit down. We sat there for about an hour, and just rocked and talked.
A lot of times when guys get together we talk about our spouses – for a lack of a better term we sometimes make fun of them – but not Ron. Dana...he always said you were perfect. He thought you were the perfect wife, mother and companion.
Dana, he loved you and the boys so much. Ron would glow when he talked about you. In my opinion, most people in this world can be replaced. Ron is not one of them...he is one of the special ones. Ron, I love you, and I am going to miss you.
Poem read by Rabbi Dr. Analia Bortz at the Atlanta memorial service:
When I die give what’s left of me away
to children and old men that wait to die.
And if you need to cry, cry for your brother
walking the street beside you.
And when you need me, put your arms around anyone
and give them what you need to give me.
I want to leave you something,
something better than words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I've known or loved,
and if you cannot give me away,
at least let me live in your eyes and not in your mind.
You can love me best by letting hands touch hands,
and by letting go of children that need to be free.
Love doesn't die, people do.
So when all that's left of me is love,
give me away.
Ken Schneiderman's speech from the Funeral and the Atlanta memorial service:
Ken Schneiderman's speech from the Funeral and the Atlanta memorial service:
Ron was the best brother I could ever ask for.
I will always be grateful that I had the chance to share my life with him.
So many of his friends considered Ron to be their best friend. That’s a wonderful gift. He always made a special effort to spend time with each of them. He was kind, loyal, silly, and fun.
He had a special love for family, a compassion for people from all walks of life, and a unique kindness to pets.
Ron found the love of his life in Dana. I think the happiest years of Ron's life began when he met her.
What a great match they made.
The marriage had the added blessing of bringing two families together that have shared many simchas and will bring comfort as we mourn the loss of my brother.
He was an amazing father to his two sons Zachary and Evan. Growing up, Ron wasn't always known for having a lot of patience and I once teased him that I was surprised that he turned out to be such a wonderful father. His response was “Thanks a lot”! The truth is that he was a fantastic father who had endless patience and got great joy out of being a father.
I am so proud to have had him as my brother.
We will miss his smile, his laugh, his love for life.
I will think of him often and love him forever.
Scott Felcher's speech from the Funeral and the Atlanta memorial service:
Dear Ron,
First and foremost, I want to thank you for being such a wonderful friend. You were always easy to get along with and with me, that was no easy task, you loved to have a good time and most importantly, a friend that I could confide and trust in. When I first exchanged numbers with you at singles event back in 96, I never thought that you would turn out to be my best friend. Of course you had to get past the possibility of me being gay because my voice was high and I had to think past the possibility of you being boring because you were Jewish. Our first get together at Music Midtown was a blast as was the next twelve years.
However, there are still a few things that rattle my cage. First, your pool skills are ridiculous. What gives you the right to make every shot? Still to this day, I have never won a game against you. Secondly, the nickname you gave me of "Dos Ropas" which means two ropes in Spanish still upsets me. You felt your boat needed to be tied to the dock with three ropes and I argued for two. This was the point in our friendship that I knew you could deal with me. You didn't give in and you stood your ground.
So after 12 years of friendship we have shared some of the most genuine, thought-provoking and sincere conversations. This is just one of the many reasons I wanted so much of your time. What God gave me was a friend with a huge heart and too many smarts. And that brings me to my next point. Trivia with you was always the same. You had all the answers while I just waited for the free pitcher of beer. It was also my opportunity to spend time with you while we ate our favorite foods....wings, nachos and chicken tenders. Over the years you encouraged me to be a better man, you shared your life questions with me and I'm fairly certain we answered them all. You also "got it" and that’s why we made the effort to get to know one another on a very personal level.
So after many years Dana enters your life. I knew after two weeks something changed in you that was remarkable. You had that look in your eye and I knew that you had found love. You made me believe that there was life after being single. Dana was a blessing right from God. Since that time you have become an even warmer, kind-hearted, caring husband and father. Having a family gave you a greater appreciating for life.
Ron, you are a man whose heart grew a little bit bigger each day.
Ron, you are the man who made this world a brighter place.
Ron, you are my best friend who I am not afraid to say that I truly loved.
Ron, may you always be at the right hand of God and may his peace always be with you.
David Meline's speech from the Atlanta memorial service:
A Tribute to Ron
delivered by David Meline at the Memorial Service
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Introduction:
We have heard from Ron’s brother Ken and two of his best friends, Scott and Al. I am Dana’s brother David and I will now attempt to provide a small flavor of the Meline family perspective about Ron, Dana, and the boys . . . all in the spirit of celebrating Ron’s life.
My comments are contained in four vignettes.
The Story of Ron:
My version of The Story of Ron has about a 10-year preamble. It started back in late 1991, about 6 months after Dana moved back home to Hollywood after graduating from college. My wife and I recruited and convinced my sister, the “Original Dana Meline”, to move to Atlanta because it was a vibrant city full of young people.
For those of you who don’t know, I married a Dana, but I will skip all the funny stories about life with two Dana Melines living in the same city . . . and even in the same apartment complex.
Anyway, it just so happened that Ron had moved to Atlanta a few months later so the stage was set for their destiny . . . it just took a while! In the meantime, with all due respect to the guys that Dana dated, none of them were worthy of my little sister . . . until Ron showed up . . . like manna from heaven . . . a true mensch with a great disposition, strong family values, and a huge caring heart!
Obviously Dana knew from the beginning how special Ron was because she uncharacteristically made the first move to reel him in. What a catch! It has been said that Dana completed Ron . . . well, I can tell you that they definitely completed each other and became a fantastic couple and ultimately wonderful parents.
The Legend of Uncle Ron:
When Ron arrived on the scene, the immediate family and the entire extended family were thrilled, including all the Atlanta family from Dana Joy’s side. My parents could not have asked for a better son-in-law and we could not have asked for a better brother-in-law. But perhaps Ron’s biggest fans were his 7 nieces and nephews.
They started getting to know him on the big family Disney cruise for Savta’s 65th birthday a few months before Aunt Dana and Uncle Ron got engaged . . . . and they were all junior bridesmaids and groomsmen in the wedding.
I asked each of the 7 nieces and nephews to share with me a special memory or favorite characteristic of Uncle Ron that I would like to share with all of you now:
REBECCA (10 years old): I remember being the flower girl at Aunt Dana and Uncle Ron’s wedding and crying all the way down the isle until my cousin Meital rescued me. I also remember that Uncle Ron had a favorite big plastic glow-in-the-dark Halloween cup that he always used . . . and one time when everyone was over at Aunt Dana and Uncle Ron’s house, Saba happened to grab Uncle Ron’s favorite cup out of the cabinet and started using it . . . and Aunt Dana freaked out!
JARED (13 years old): I was proud to be the first person to ever call Ron “Uncle Ron”. I was 7 years old and we were at the JCC for Alex’s all-star baseball game. Aunt Dana and Ron came to the game and told us they were going to get married, so I said: “I guess I can call you Uncle Ron”. He told me I was the first person to ever call him that and that he thought it was so cool and special . . . and he thanked me.
ALEX (15 years old): We had so many great times together, but I especially enjoyed going to sporting events with Uncle Ron, whether we would take him to a Braves game or he would take us to see the Falcons or the Georgia Force . . . and we would discuss his favorite stuff to eat at a ball game or the best mustard to put on a hot dog (even though he hated mustard), which of course is Stadium Mustard, which he would proudly say “has been served at Cleveland Stadium for over 50 years”. Aunt Dana is the one who likes mustard so Uncle Ron would get a great deal ordering it by the case . . . now the whole family always has some in their pantries!
MEITAL (14 years old): Uncle Ron was known for always being able to relate to his nieces and nephews. He preferred to sit at the kids table, went to teenage band concerts like Weezer, made CDs of all the hip rock stars, and had fun with collectibles.
YANIV (16 years old): Not only did I always have fun hanging out with Uncle Ron, but I also loved his pearls of wisdom. I remember one time he was talking to me about business and he taught me something that I can use in all aspects of life: he said “always under-commit and over-provide to keep people happy.”
SETH (15 years old): One of my special memories was going to the Rolling Stones concert with Uncle Ron after my bar mitzvah and spending that time with him. [That occasion is even referenced in the following poem that Seth very recently wrote for school.]
EULOGY POEM
by Seth Meline
My right hand man, showing me the ropes.
Rocking out, scream and shout, we had all the best time.
Two beautiful lives, created from such a wonderful guy.
My uncle, my right hand man, doesn’t deserve to pass now.
A good life was lived, short and to the point.
Living for the things he loved, and how I loved him.
My uncle, my right hand man, will always be at my side.
JAIME (17 years old): I love how Uncle Ron genuinely carried out a conversation. He always was so engaged in what the other people were saying and you could see it in his smile that he cared about you and what you thought. He was always asking questions and making you smile. There was no such thing as a generation gap. It didn’t matter who he was conversing with, he was their new best friend in five minutes.
The Village is Strong:
Dana is truly blessed with a very supportive extended family and a network of devoted friends. This tragedy has already brought a very close family even closer . . . a close group of friends even closer . . . and a close knit community even closer. This is all because of the genuine goodness of both Ron and my amazing sister!
In the near term, it will certainly take a village to help Dana and the boys adjust to this sad new reality . . . but I am here to tell you that the village is strong . . . and we will help light a path to a brighter future that will always honor Ron. And Zachary and Evan will also play an important role. These two precious little boys – whose smiles, laughter, and enthusiasm light up a room – will fill Dana’s home with optimism for the future.
The Torch will Burn Brightly:
When Dana and Ron asked Uncle Ken to be Zachary’s god father and later when they asked me to be Evan’s god father, we were both very honored. Now, we will honor Ron and take great pride in the mitzvah of being role models for Zachary and Evan as they mature and grow to know what a wonderful father they had.
Ron is, and will always be, an inspiration to us. And with Dana’s strength and wisdom, the torch of Ron’s good name . . . of his wonderfully huge heart . . . and of his lasting soul . . . will burn brightly and be caringly passed to two more mensches just like their beloved father.
Ron – we love you; we miss you dearly; . . . . and we will honor you forever.
Ron's Obituary:
Ronald Alan Schneiderman, 44, passed away on March 4, 2009 in Roswell, Georgia.
Born in Akron, Ohio, Ron graduated from Firestone High School in 1983, then earned a BA in Business from the University of Akron. He obtained his MBA from Miami University in Oxford, Ohio in 1991, then made Atlanta his home. For the past 7 years he has been a highly valued Account Manager at Paetec Communications, where he was frequently recognized for his outstanding contributions to the company. Ron was a devoted son to Stan and Harriet Schneiderman, a caring brother to Ken and sister-in-law Norma, a loving husband to Dana, and a dedicated father to his sons Zachary and Evan. Ron was also beloved by his in-laws, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews, and countless friends.
Along with his family, Ron was a member of Congregation Or Hadash in Atlanta. Ron found the greatest joy in the simplest of pleasures: he had a passion for collectibles, had a zest for history and trivia, loved movies, listening to music, and most of all, spending time with his family and friends. Ron lived by the words of the Talmudic sage, Shammai, who taught that we should “greet every person we meet with a warm and cheerful countenance,” and Ron learned from his parents to treat every human being with dignity.
Funeral and Memorial Service Details:
Atlanta Memorial Service Details
The Atlanta Shiva will be held on Tuesday, March 10th, Wednesday, March 11th and Thursday, March 12th from 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm. Services will begin promptly at 7:00 pm.
Shiva Location:
David and Dana Meline
1153 Whitehall Pointe
Dunwoody, GA 30338
This is the Whitehall Community on the southwest corner of Roberts Drive and Spalding.
Ron's Memorial Service will be held on Sunday, March 15th at 4:00 pm. The service will be held at the Or Hadash Sanctuary at The Weber School. Location: 6751 Roswell Road, Atlanta, GA 30328. (close to the intersection of Abernathy Road and Roswell Road)
If you wish to honor Ron's memory, contributions may be made to benefit Zachary and Evan’s education. Please make checks payable to: “Contribution Account for Zachary & Evan.” Mail to:
Private Mail Box #135
5588 Chamblee Dunwoody Road
Dunwoody, GA 30338
Dana would be most appreciative of your kindness and generosity.
Akron Funeral Details
Ron’s funeral will take place on Monday, March 9th at 10 a.m. at Gordon-Flury Funeral Home, 1260 Collier Road, Akron, OH 44320. Interment to follow the funeral service at Rose Hill Cemetery at 3653 West Market Street in Akron. Shiva period will be Monday through Thursday, beginning at 7:30 p.m. at the Schneiderman home.
It is Dana’s request that in lieu of flowers or plants, contributions to honor Ron’s memory may be made to benefit Zachary and Evan’s education. Please make checks payable to: “Contribution Account for Zachary & Evan.” Mail to:
Private Mail Box #135
5588 Chamblee Dunwoody Road
Dunwoody, GA 30338
Wednesday, March 4 - 10:38 pm
Ron is at peace now. He passed away this evening shortly after 8:00 with Dana by his side. Details regarding funeral & memorial services will be posted later.
Monday, March 2 - 10:54 pm
No update this evening.
Sunday, March 1 - 10:27 pm
Again, no update tonight.
Saturday, February 28 - 9:54 pm
We have no update this evening.
Friday, February 27 - 8:49 pm
A quick apology to those who left (or tried to leave) comments these past two days. I had a little technical glitch, which I think is corrected now. The couple of duplicate posts are due to this glitch. Ron had a peaceful day, and Dana is giving him lots of love from everyone.
Thursday, February 26 - 10:22 pm
Tonight’s blog entry wasn’t easy to write, and it won’t be easy to read.
Many of you have been praying for the miracle of Ron’s full and complete recovery, and we are thankful for all the prayers being said all over the world. In reality, Ron would need 4 miracles. Even if he were to get two (recovery from the coma, and very little or no brain damage), it would be cruel to have to explain the situation to him and ask him to recover enough strength to deal with chemo and radiation in hopes for two more miracles (beating both types of brain cancer). We ask that everyone pray instead for peace and comfort for Ron and his family.
As mentioned earlier on this blog, Ron has two different kinds of brain tumors, and he has been in a coma since January 30, the day of his surgery. The final pathology report does not contain grades for either of Ron’s tumors, but they are both malignant, and will worsen in time. Without treatment for the tumors, Ron would be expected to live 10 to 11 months. With treatment, Ron would be expected to live only 14 to 15 months. His current condition is stable, but he needs constant care in the ICU to keep him that way. His blood is tested many times during the day so that they can closely monitor his sugar levels, sodium levels, etc. It is a delicate balancing act to keep these levels balanced with medication. He is also on other various medications for heart rate, brain swelling, antibiotics, etc. Ron’s neurosurgeon believes Ron could not tolerate chemotherapy and/or radiation – rather, it would likely result in his death.
Because there has been no neurological progress since the day of the surgery, Ron is not expected to recover from the coma. Even if he were to come out of the coma, the extent of brain damage, resulting from the strokes and the tumors, is not known. If he were somehow able to come out of the coma, he would probably need a month or two to gain enough strength to undergo treatment for the tumors.
Dana met with her and Ron’s immediate families and her rabbi in preparation for her Monday meeting with Ron’s neurosurgeon (which her parents and one of her brothers, a gastroenterologist, also attended), and then had subsequent meetings with the families and rabbi to discuss the information that she received. Ron does have a living will, which specifies that he wants life-sustaining treatment to be discontinued in the event that there is no reasonable hope for a meaningful recovery. Dana, both sides of the immediate family and Ron’s doctors are in full agreement regarding the decision with respect to next steps. The doctors are going to discontinue life-sustaining medication, and begin hospice care but continue with fluids and anti-seizure medication. If Ron survives more than 24 hours, he will be moved to a different floor where they will keep him as pain-free and comfortable as possible. There really are no other options, because Ron cannot remain in ICU for much longer, and he requires much more care (and special equipment) than can be provided outside of the ICU. Also, considering the prognosis, there is no reason to continue to put Ron through the discomfort (Ron does show some reaction to pain) of getting blood drawn frequently and having his trach tube suctioned, etc.
For those who wonder whether Ron has been given enough of a chance, you must understand that this past month has been his chance. Had Dana not come home from work just in time to call 911 before his seizure, it is very likely that he would not have survived the day. She saved his life that day, which gave him the chance for surgery and recovery. Dana also wants to mention that Ron has been given more chances than anyone who would be in his situation, thanks to his neurosurgeon, who knows how to weave science and compassion, and who exudes the epitome of human kindness.
It goes without saying that this has been an unbelievable nightmare for all who care for and love Ron. Please bear with Ron’s family as we deal with this terrible situation as best as we can. We know that many of you just want to pick up the phone and call the family, but we ask you to please realize that phone calls are too exhausting. We know that many of you would like to visit Ron, but we ask that you please remember Ron as you last knew him. The last day that Ron was truly (consciously) with us was on his 44th birthday on January 28th. He had a great day with his family, and dined on his favorite – pizza! He had cupcakes with his adorable sons and enjoyed birthday cards and messages from friends and family.
Please keep in mind that all important updates, arrangements, and specific details will continue to be posted to this blog. It will be used as the primary source of all communication for any information that needs to be shared.
Wednesday, February 25 - 10:34 pm
Again no changes to report today.
Tuesday, February 24 - 8:15 pm
No update this evening.
Monday, February 23 - 11:44 pm
Dana did meet with Ron's neurologist, but the oncologist was not available. She needs a little time to process the information. No change to Ron's condition.
Sunday, February 22 - 10:28 pm
Dana has a meeting scheduled with Ron's doctors tomorrow evening to discuss the pathology report and Ron's prognosis. Ron's condition is status quo - he is still resting comfortably.
Saturday, February 21 - 10:17 pm
Still no changes to report.
Friday, February 20 - 10:51 pm
There is no news to report today.
Thursday, February 19 - 9:56 pm
There is no news to report today.
Wednesday, February 18 - 9:41 pm
Ron’s pathology report is back. It took much longer than expected, because the Mayo Clinic had a very difficult time diagnosing Ron's tumor. They had to call in Dr. Burger of John Hopkins University, who is one of the world's leading authorities on the classification and diagnosis of tumors of the central nervous system, and put together a panel of experts to complete the diagnosis. The pathology report indicates that Ron has two separate and distinct tumors - what the doctor called "a collision of tumors."
One tumor is an astrocytoma (the most common type of primary brain tumor) with necrosis (the presence of dead cells in the middle of the tumor) and atypical cells. These characteristics indicate malignancy; however, high grade tumors usually have a high population of cells, and Ron’s tumor does not. Because of the conflicting characteristics, the doctors could not give a definitive grade on this very unusual tumor. The other tumor is a B cell lymphoma, which means it's coming from the central nervous system. This is very uncommon in a young person. The doctors need to see if they can run more tests to try to find out more information on this tumor. The Oncologist has a few more items of discussion regarding this B cell lymphoma.
Ron is clearly not ready for treatment at this time. Dana has not yet had a meeting with the team of doctors to discuss the pathology report or the prognosis. Ron is still breathing on his own and resting comfortably.
Tuesday, February 17 - 8:56 pm
Today they took Ron off of the ventilator, and he is breathing 100% on his own with a trach collar in place. Should they need to, they can simply hook the ventilator back up to the trach tube at any time. There were no neurological changes. Ron had a very quiet day.
Monday, February 16 - 10:27 pm
No changes to report today.
Sunday, February 15 - 7:14 pm
Today's news is that Ron's spinal fluid is draining well enough internally that they were able to remove his catheter (which was draining the fluid externally from his brain). This morning's CAT scan showed some reduced swelling. No additional changes to report.
Saturday, February 14 - 10:32 pm
Ron had a quiet day today - there are no changes to report.
Friday, February 13 - 8:21 pm
Ron's CAT scan this morning showed no changes. His next CAT scan will be Sunday. He is resting comfortably and had no other changes.
Thursday, February 12 - 6:45 pm
Status quo. Ron will have another CAT scan tomorrow. We are still waiting to receive the pathology report.
Wednesday, February 11 - 9:40 pm
No changes to report today.
Tuesday, February 10 - 9:30 pm
Ron rested comfortably today. They began feeding him earlier than originally planned (last night), and he is handling the new feeding tube well. This morning's CAT scan showed no changes.
Monday, February 9 - 8:35 pm
Correction - Ron did not have a CAT scan this morning, in anticipation of the PEG procedure, but will have one tomorrow morning. The hospital staff is taking excellent care of Ron. They will start feeding him again tomorrow afternoon.
Monday, February 9 - 3:30 pm
Ron had a CAT scan in the morning, which we haven't discussed yet with the doctors. In the early afternoon, he had a PEG tube inserted. A PEG tube is used to provide nourishment directly to Ron's stomach. He was sedated for this short procedure, which was done in his ICU room, and it went well. Ron's feeding tube had been removed Saturday evening in preparation for yesterday's tracheostomy. There are no other changes to report at this time.
Sunday, February 8 - 8:15 pm
Ron had a peaceful day and will have another CAT scan tomorrow.
Sunday, February 8 - 2:10 pm
Ron's tracheostomy went well this morning. He is resting comfortably. Everything else remains the same.
Saturday, February 7 - 9:10 pm
Ron again had no change for the worse today. He is scheduled to have a tracheostomy in the morning. This is standard operating procedure, as they cannot leave patients intubated for long periods of time, or it could irritate the esophogus. This procedure should make him more comfortable.
February 6 - 9:00 pm
Again no changes for the worse - things remain status quo for now. We are still awaiting a final pathology report, which may not come until Tuesday. The family was able to have some quiet time together this evening, and Dana is trying to spend more time with the boys.
Thursday, February 5 - 7:09 pm
No CAT scan this morning. Another day with no bad news, but no notable changes. Ron is resting comfortably and is doing well with his feeding tube. We do not know at this time whether they will do another CAT scan tomorrow. Will post more when we know more.
Wednesday, February 4 - 4:31 pm
Ron had another CAT scan this morning, and his neurologist showed it to Dana, Harriet, Ken and Ken's wife, Norma, this afternoon. He believes that he sees some reduction in the swelling in Ron's brain since the surgery occurred. Otherwise, things remain the same - there has been no increase in neurological function. We are aware that everyone is anxious for news, but do not have much to share at this point. We may not update again today if there is nothing new to report.
Tuesday, February 3 - 6:42 pm
There has been no change regarding Ron's neurological activity, but his vitals are pretty good, and he is handling the feeding tube (which they started yesterday) well. We appreciate everyone's patience and support. The family is not eating together at home, so please do not send meals to Ron and Dana's home or to the hospital. We do realize everyone is aching to help, and we promise we will ask for help once we are ready. Thanks again to everyone for the very kind comments!
Monday, February 2 - 10:19 pm
Still no change. No CAT scan Tuesday morning.
Monday, February 2 - 10:05 am
Ron remained stable through the night. This morning's CAT scan showed no changes. We know that you all are keeping the prayers and positive thoughts coming.
Sunday, February 1 - 9:27 pm
Dana had a conversation with Ron's neurosurgeon today. There has been no significant change to Ron's condition; however, there has been no decline. The doctor stressed the need to give Ron plenty of time for the swelling to decrease. They will continue to do CAT scans every morning until they are sure that they show enough stability to warrant doing them less frequently. We will continue to update, but please understand that there could be many more days without much news to report. Thank you all so much for your words of encouragement, prayers and offers of help.
Sunday, February 1 - 2:14 pm
Dana, Harriet and Ken met with the neurologist this morning, and there is still no change in Ron's condition. The CAT scan did not reveal any new information. He had been running a fever yesterday, which has come down a little today. The catheter is still working. The good news so far today is that there hasn't been any additional bad news. Apologies for not updating sooner, but we cannot update from the hospital. Unfortunately, there is nothing to do but wait at this time.
A few more details and clarification - yes, the fact that Ron is non-responsive to the extent that he is does mean that he is (and has been) in a coma. He does respond to pinching (but this is an involuntary response), and he does have corneal reflex. We must wait for some change for the better.
Saturday, January 31 - 10:41 pm
There has been no change in Ron's condition. Immediate family will gather at the hospital again in the morning. Ron will have another CAT scan very early, and we hope to discuss the results with his doctor sometime in the morning. The family has been reading the comments posted, and we all appreciate everyone's good wishes. We will post again when we know more.
Saturday, January 31 - noon
Dana, Harriet and Ken met with Ron's neurologist and neurosurgeon. Ron's situation is very serious. His pupils are fixed and dilated, which is a bad sign. The doctors say that Ron's brain stem has been compromised; however, he does have some neurological activity. Ron's tumor is a very aggressive, fast-growing tumor with tentacle-like features. The doctors speculate that it may have originated in the hypothalamus within the last month or two. What remains of the tumor (which may be as much as 40%, vs. the 20% reported earlier) is deep in an area of the brain that the surgeon could not risk invading. The MRI Ron had this morning revealed that Ron had actually had 2 strokes, one at the back of each hemisphere of his brain. They were swelling, not bleeding strokes. It is still not clear when the strokes occurred.
Ron's catheter had gradually stopped working this morning, so they repositioned it. It is now working again. We now must wait to see whether there is any change in Ron's neurological function. If there is no change before tomorrow morning, we will speak with the doctors again at that time.
Friday, January 30
Ron was prepped for surgery to remove the brain tumor early in the morning . The surgery began at around 8:15 and lasted six hours. In the afternoon,the neurosurgeon reported that he had removed 80% of the tumor, and no incidents occurred during the surgery. He placed a catheter in Ron's head to drain the spinal fluid. It is expected that he will remain in ICU for 5 days with the catheter in place.
Following the surgery, the doctors noticed unusual movement on Ron's right side, so they took him for another scan. The scan revealed that Ron had had a stroke, the neurosurgeon thought within the past 12 - 24 hours. There was no evidence of the stroke during the surgery, and no conditions occurred during the surgery which would have been expected to cause a stroke. The stroke did not appear related to the tumor, because the tumor was in a different location. Ron did not regain consciousness after surgery.
Thursday, January 29
Ron woke early in the morning not feeling well, and stayed home from work. Dana tried calling him many times during the morning and got no answer. She emailed his work, and found that he had not called in, so she went home to check on him around noon. She found him shaking and sweating and complaining of being cold. She began to dress him to take him to the hospital, but realized she needed to call 911. While she was trying to put a sweatshirt on him, he appeared to have a seizure. She called 911 again, and was informed that the emergency crew were at the front door. They took Ron (and Dana) to the hospital and did CAT scans and MRIs. They determined that Ron had a brain tumor that was preventing the fluid in his brain from draining properly. The neurosurgeon said that it was important that the pressure build-up be relieved quickly, and recommended surgery within 24 hours. Surgery was scheduled for 7:30 am Friday.
Dana - we are here for you - whatever you need - you know we love you & Ron very much - Lisa, Al & Max
ReplyDeleteDana - we are praying for Ron and you are all in our thoughts. If there is anything we can do, just ask. Love and hugs, Linda, Charles and co.
ReplyDeleteDana,
ReplyDeleteDonna and I would like to extend our hands to you for whatever is needed. We are both praying for the best for you guys.
Love-
Donna and Eric
Dana,
ReplyDeletePraying to God to help give you strength over this time. Ron is a strong man and he can fight this. We are here for you. Lean on on God. Allow him to wraps his arounds around you and the family for comfort. He will never abandon you.
Much Love,
Dave & Betty Dawson
Dana,
ReplyDeleteyou are in our thoughts and prayers as are the boys and the extended family. We wish we could help in any way. Please know that we are here for you.
Love,
Connie & Dan
We will do anything for you or anyone who may need us to help them help you. I see you have many offers and we want those on the blog to know they can call on us to help them too. Until then we pray for you all.
ReplyDeleteLove and hugs, Val and Carol
prayers and love from all of us. We love you all and hope and pray to hear better news.
ReplyDeleteLove,
The Sabbags
There are no words to express my sorrow, my concern and my love for Ron, Dana, their two boys and their families. My best friend Ron is a fighter and I still have faith that our great God can work a miracle.
ReplyDeleteIn prayer,
Scott and Mindie Felcher
Ken, Dana, Norma and Aunt Harriet,
ReplyDeleteWe are praying very hard for a quick recovery. We are here to do anything you need. e will watch after Uncle Stan. Please find strength in God in this most trying time. Love Toby and Gary
If there is anything we can do PLEASE call us. We are praying for you all.
ReplyDeleteShannon & David Eiser
All our love and prayers to Ron, Dana & their family.
ReplyDeleteKim & Justin Ellis
Dear Harriet, Dana, Norma and Ken,
ReplyDeleteToby sent us the address with the http:// in fornt of it and we got on and am includin our prayes and wishes for Ron's health. Glad you're all together and send our love,
Aunt Rolinda and Uncle Ted
We pray for you, Ron and your families. We pray for God to give you all the strength and courage you need during this time. We are here to help whenever you need us.
ReplyDeleteWe Love you Reynolds.
Dana,
ReplyDeleteYou are all in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you and will help in any way we can.
Love,
Pam and Alan Buchalter
Dana - I can't begin to understand what you and your family are going though at this time. Please know that I am thinking about you and sending good thoughts and HUGS your way. Stay storng and positive - I know from experience that this makes a big difference.
ReplyDeleteThank you to whomever is posting the blog - it's nice to be kept informed.
XOXO - Jill Powers
We are sending lots of love, hope, and support to Ron, Dana, and both families from the west. Our hearts are with you.
ReplyDeleteThe Stamper-Kurns
Love, love, love. from Allie, Claire, Joanna and Nancy
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with Ron and your family during this difficult time. Although I have not seen him in many years, Ron was a good friend and classmate at Firestone High School. Sending you all positive thoughts for his recovery.
ReplyDeleteJim Lowery
Chicago, Illinois
God,
ReplyDeletePlease give Ron the strength he needs to rejoin his family and friends. Please God, wrap your arms around the family during this difficult time and show them your big love. And please God, use this time to bring us closer to you.
Dear Dana and entire families:
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts and prayers for Ron's recovery. We believe in PRAYER POWER . Visualize and it will Materialize!! These are the words of Aunt Ginger who is working with you in her special way. This morning at Temple Sinai a special mishabera was said for Ron. Our thoughts will remain POSITIVE!!!
You are a strong and courageous young woman and we know G-d will help you thru this most difficult time... All our love to you always,
Aunt Diane and Uncle David
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteWe just received word of Ron's condition from Jerry. Our prayers are with both you and Ron at this time.
Robert & Maryjane Slaughter
Naples, FL
Dearest Dana,
ReplyDeleteHow helpless it feels to not be able to do something for you right now. All my healing energy and prayers and strength I send to you. Hang in there and know that you are surrounded by so much love, more than any of us could ever express in words.
Sandy Kugelman
Dana,
ReplyDeleteIt's been awhile since I have seen you and Ron but please know we are praying for Ron's recovery. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Linda and Garrett(Matchan)
We believe in a miraculous GOD. A God that can perform miracles when man can't - stay close to him. We will continue to lift Ron up in prayer.
ReplyDeleteChris and Danielle San Filippo
Dear Ron and Dana,
ReplyDeleteYou both are so very special to us and to so many more. We LOVE, LOVE, LOVE you and are here for you in any way possible. God Bless You in this trying time.
The Singer Family
Oh Dana, what I wish we could do for you and Ron and your family right now. Lots of love and prayers are being made from our home to yours. Please know that whatever you need, whenever you need it, we are here for you..Love you so much,Nancy, Jimmy, Brett and Aaron
ReplyDeleteAppreciation & love to you all. May Dave Lowry be watching over you giving you strength. G-ds will be done, on earth, as it is in heaven. My love and prayers.
ReplyDeleteAmy & duncan the dog
Our thoughts and prayers are with Ron & Dana.
ReplyDeleteSean, Melanie & Kathryn Beck
Dana and Ron: We are praying for all of you FULL TIME. We are there with you in spirit and are wishing Ronnie a full recovery. Know that we are wishing we could be of some assistance and are thinking of you constantly. Love you all, Cindy, Michael, Brett & Stephanie
ReplyDeleteDear Dana, Kenny, Norma, Mr. and Mrs. Schneiderman,
ReplyDeleteThe Schneir family's thoughts and prayers are with you at this challenging moment. Kenny has been my best friend for many years. Growing up Ken and Ron were part of the best of times. Throughout the years Kenny, Norma and my family stay in touch often. Ronny has always been part of our conversations. We are saying some really strong prayers. Please let us if we can do anything at all!!!! We are with all of you in spirit.
Jay, Debbie, Rachel, and Adam Schneir
Dana,
ReplyDeleteYou are in our every thought as you find courage and strength through this difficult and painful time. Please know that thoughts and prayers from your entire "NY Family" are with you.
We love you,
Jessica, Sean, Sydney & Ethan
Dear Schneiderman family - we are with you and praying for you and thinking about you - you were the best next door neighbors a family can have and Ron is a special guy and a fighter and we stand by to help in any way you need.
ReplyDeleteLove John, Ondrea Jack and Hayden
My Dear, Dear Ronnie......May God bless you with healing; you are truly a fighter and I know you are doing everything you can. And may the Shechinah watch over you. Misha-berachs are being made all over the country and in Israel for your well being.
ReplyDeleteMy Dear Dana, Harriet, Kenny and Norma, and all the Melines: May you have strength and comfort. My prayers and love are with all of you.....please kiss Zachary and Evan for me, and my hugs to all of you.
My words are inadequate; I can't even think clearly. As Kenny said to me, this is surreal.
Dana,
ReplyDeleteI don't have to tell you what a strong guy Ron is...I have worked by him for years, and he's one of the best people I've ever met. We are praying for all of you. God can do amazing things...we are here if there's anything we can help with ..
Dear Ronnie.........the previous message was from your Aunt Shirley Lowy......sorry, I forgto to sign this.
ReplyDeleteI am at Cindy's right now.
Love you all,
Shirley
Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are here with you during this very difficult time.
Brian and Ellen Nagel
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are full of hope and prayers for Ron, you and the boys, and your families. All our love and support,
Audrey, Larry, Jordan and Sydney
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.....Jodi, Jordan, Joshua, Jared Forman
ReplyDeleteDear Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers are with you.
Alan and Michelle Epstein
Everyone in Akron is just heartbroken by this news and we continue to hope that Ron's condition will change for the better. Hopefully the "Mi Shebarach's" will make a difference. Herb and Ellen Moss
ReplyDeleteDana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers go out to you, Ron and your families! Words cannot explain how I feel about your family!!! If there is ANYTHING I can do to help you out, please let me know!!! Please know that I am there for Zachary and Evan if you need me! Thank you so much to your family for posting the blog!!!
With much love and prayers!!!!
Tracy, Stuart, Stephanie & Emily Weiss
The Weissman family extends our very deep ann heartfelt best wishes for a FULL and SPEEDY recovery for Ron. Our hearts go out to him and his whole family, and we are praying for their strength and comfort.
ReplyDeleteLove, Harriet, Bruce, Deirdre, Lainey, and Chandler Weissman
Dana
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with all of you! We too are here for you if you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask.
Dana and Julie Possick
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ReplyDeleteDear Dana and Family,
ReplyDeleteI pray that God gives you the strength to help Ron through this difficult time. I believe in miracles and the power of prayer, which is working hard for you guys right now because you are so loved. I believe that hope and positive thinking can make a difference. We are praying every minute for you.
Thank you so much for updating.
Love, Gianna & Brett
Dana,
ReplyDeleteWe are thinking of you and praying for Ron's speedy recovery.
Laurie and Ron Alber (Zachary's family)
Dana.... Ron, you, the boys and your families are constantly in my thoughts and prayers right now. You all are so loved and just know that I am here for you for whatever you may need. I love you, Debbie & Megan
ReplyDeleteFor those of you who would like to make a misha-berach for my beautiful nephew Ron, his Hebrew name is:
ReplyDeleteREUVEN ALTER ben CHAVA YOCHEVED
May you have a refuah shlayma and a complete recovery, my dear Ronnie. I love you so much.
Love,
Aunt Shirley Lowy
Dana and family~
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are wrapped around you....
Beth, Josh and Rebecca
Ron, Dana, and family - our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you. If there is anything you need, we will be there. Love, Jerry and Daisy Killian
ReplyDeleteSending prayers for a refuah shlema for Ron.
ReplyDeleteDana, my thoughts are with you and your boys. Words can not express the pain we all feel for you.
Thank you to the blog-author so we can keep current.
Edye Summerfield
Dana and Family,
ReplyDeleteIf there is ANYTHING I or my family can do for you - please don't hesitate to reach out. We are all here for your family.
Mark and Karen Winarsky
Hope & prayers.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Judy Teichert
San Francisco
You are in our hearts and our prayers and we want you to know that we are here for you. Whatever you need, we're here...
ReplyDeleteLove,
Dana, Julie & Tori
Dana - I'm at a loss for words. I have prayed for you and Ron all day as I go through the motions of mundane housework tasks. Even if I cannot comprehend what you're going through I know God does and He is there with you. Look for His touch - He wants to comfort you.
ReplyDeletehugs & kisses, Janet
Dear Dana, Harriet and Ken,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear about this surprising and terrible turn of events. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Refuah Shlemah to Ron!
Love, David Zeldin
Dana:
ReplyDeleteRon is in our thoughts and prayers. We are sending love and strength to you and the boys. Please know we are here for you.
Love,
Rachel & Matt Simon
Dana:
ReplyDeleteWe are thinking of you and sending strength and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything --even the smallest detail - that we can do to help you.
Also thank you to the author of the blog for keeping it updated. Anything that we can do for Dana and Ron's family please let us know.
Jan & Gregory Jay
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time.
Danyel Wheeler
Ronny, Dana, Aunt Harriett, Uncle Stan, Ken, Norma, and all the family,
ReplyDeleteI am so sad about this sudden situation. I am praying for everyone and trying to send positive vibes and lots of love. We are thinking about you constantly. I wish we could do more. Please stay strong! We love you so much.
Stacey, Kevin, Haley, and Robbie Whelan
Thinking about you and sending strength. Wish we had answers for your millions of questions. But we're here if you need ANYTHING at all. Our prayers and thoughts and hearts are with you.
ReplyDelete-Becky, Shawn, and Brady Slemons
I am thinking of Ron and his family and sending healing thoughts. I wish all close to him strength and hope in your time of need. Ron is in my prayers.
ReplyDeletePeace, Love, and Hope, Becky Dempster
Dear Ron, Dana, Harriet and Stan, Ken and Norma , and Shirley,
ReplyDeletePlease know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
I am praying for a refuah shlema for Ron and sending you strength and love. Please know I am here if there is anything I can do for you.
With Love, Sandy Levenson
All of you are in our thoughts. We are so saddened by this situation and are sending you all of our love, hope and prayers.
ReplyDeleteMuch love,
Julie, Jeff, Jenna, and Joe Rosenblum
Ron and Dana Zachary snd Evsn-
ReplyDeleteWe are hear for you if you need anything. the Sunshine School is loke a big Family and we are thinking of you every minute. PLease let us know if you need anything at all. Our thoughts are with you and Ron. Love, Stefani, Craig, Hannah and Emily Faer
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
ReplyDeleteLove, Shannon and T.J. Georgecink
Dana- We are thinking of you and Ron and your kids every minute... we love you and are here for you. Love Linda, Rob, Andrew, Haley and Jake
ReplyDeleteDana, I have you in our prayers every minute of the day. We will get through all of these tough times. We love you and we think about you every day.
ReplyDeleteLove Nancy Lepera
Dearest Ron, Dana, Harriet, Stan, Ken, Norma,and Shirely
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are full of love for you all and for Zachary and Evan. Our prayers and thoughts are constant. May our words and thoughts and those of all of your friends and family provide strength and some comfort. We love you. Esther and Larry
Dana and the Meline-Schneiderman families,
ReplyDeleteYour world has turned into a surreal reality that I can't begin to imagine. I wish there were words that could comfort. May you gain strength from the many who are with you in constant thoughts and prayers. Please count me on the list of the many that would do anything for you and the boys at first request.
Kisses and hugs to you, Ron and the boys and your families.
Bonnie
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family. Grant them the strength they need to get them through this time. Wishing Ron a Refuah Shlemah - a speedy and full recovery.
ReplyDeleteRobin Lewis
Dana, Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Ron and the boys and the rest of your family. We are willing to help in any way we possibly can. Janel, Jason and Perri Schwartz
ReplyDeleteDana-
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this rough time.. Please let me know if you need any help with the boys. I've been thinking about Ron all weekend, thank your family for letting us all know what is going on. Please let us know if you need anything.. We are wishing Ron a speedy recovery.
Love,
Marnie and Lindsey Danson
Dana, Harriet, Stan, and Shirley,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers and thoughts are with you during this tough time. Our best thoughts and wishes for a recovery are with you. Thank you for posting with the news on Ron's condition and situation.
All our love,
Jason Hoffmann and Seth Barron
Dana,
ReplyDeleteAll of you are very much in my thoughts and prayers. I am praying throughout the hours for Ron's healing. I am here for you in any way that I can help.
All my love,
Patricia Butterworth
Dana, Harriet, Stan, and Shirley
ReplyDeleteMy family would like to wish you our deepest thoughts and Love for you all at this time . Our church here in Akron are all praying for you all at this time.And for Ron to have a speedy recovery.If there is anything I can do to help I am here for you. Please call if you need to
All our deepest Love
Chuck Miller and family
330 618 3767
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family at this time. Please know that all of us at the Sunshine School are here for you.
We love you and are praying for Ron's recovery.
Love,
Raye Lynn
Dana - I love you. - Ali BR
ReplyDeleteDana
ReplyDeletePlease know that our love and prayers are with you. We stand ready to help in any way we can.
Uncle Bob and Aunt Naomi
you are so present in our thoughts & in our hearts at this time! with love & hope,
ReplyDeletewendy & barry snyder
Our prayers are with you and the boys, Dana. Know, too, that whatever else we can do you need only to let us know. Tell mom or dad to call us when/if needed for anything.
ReplyDeleteSandy & Gene
Dana You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need, please let me know. I have always remarked what a wonderful family you have. I wish you well. Love, Dawn Kramer
ReplyDeleteDear Schneiderman family - our prayers are with you. Whatever help you need just let us know.
ReplyDeleteLove and hope, Steve, Hua and Morgan
Dear Schneiderman Family -
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please know the support of old neighbors and new, are with you.
Love-
Barb (BZ), Gary and Matt Bikun - Elgin, IL
Dear Schneiderman Family,
ReplyDeleteWe are so sorry to hear of these recent events, and we will continually keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Ken and Norma have been great friends to us for years, so we offer our help in any way we can. Know that there is much love for your family, and we are hopeful that Ron and your family will make it through this diffiuclt time.
Love,
Alicia, Scott, Mackenzie and Reese Barker
Please feel our cyber hugs supporting you -- Ron, Dana, Dana's Parents, Aunt Harriet, Uncle Stan, Ken, Norma, Zach, Evan and the whole extended family.
ReplyDeleteWith our love,
Karen Schneiderman and Tracey Messer
Ron and Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers and thoughts are with you. You have our loving support. Please let us know of anything you may need.
Love,
The Nadlers
Dana and Family,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers go out to you, Ron, and your families. Words cannot express how we feel about you and your family. Please know there are so many people praying for you.
Love,
Francene Felcher-Hill and Adina
Words cannot express the horror and sadness
ReplyDeletewe feel on hearing the news.......May GOD give you the strength to endure this troubling time and may everything be done to ease Ron's pain.
GOD bless
BOB AND MICKY WELLING
Prayers, love, strength, and hope are being sent to you every minute from the Pines Family. xxoo
ReplyDeleteWhether near or far, you are always close in heart. My love, prayers and offer of support are here for you and your whole family. Please use the strength and positive wishes of all those who love you to know that so many people are in your corner. With love, Heidi
ReplyDeleteDear Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts and thoughts are with you at this tragic time. We hope and pray Ron will make a speedy and complete recovery.
Love,
Norma and Andrew
Dearest Dana and boys,
ReplyDeleteYou are in our thoughts, our prayers, our hearts. I hope our optimism and love can travel across the ocean to you and Ron.
Ali, Jason, Isaiah and Shoshana Levy
Dana and family - all of us in New York are continuously praying for the good health and speedy recovery for Ron. Not a second goes by when we are not thinking of you. This comes from my family, Jess, my parents, Aunt Janet and Gail, Unlce Bobby, Aunt Jewel and Henry and all of our cousins. You ARE family to us. This has really touched us and we sending the prayers from NY to you!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Carole Alexander Holzmann
Dana,
ReplyDeleteKnow that my thoughts and prayers are with Ron, you and your family
every minute of the day.
Love, Kim M.
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMitchell and I are thinking about y'all. Please let us know if we can help with you or the kids at any time. We are just a few houses down the street.
Phyllis and Mitchell Abrams
Dana, Ken & all the family I am praying hard for you. I spoke to Scott last night. Thank you very much for the posts. My heart goes out to you. All my love and energy. Antonio ¨Tony¨ Bryant
ReplyDeleteDana - our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. Just know lots of love and hugs are headed your way.
ReplyDeleteThe Dunbar Family
Dana-
ReplyDeleteI am here whenever you need me. Just say the word. Much love to you, Ron, and the boys.
Ingrid
Praying for you all.
ReplyDeleteDear Dana, Stan, Harriet, Kenny, & Norma,
ReplyDeleteYou are all in our thoughts as we pray for a rapid change for the better but to take care of Ronnie also includes taking care of yourselves. Do not hesitate to contact us if you have any questions, concerns, or need anything at all.
Love always,
Robby, Annette, & Gabrielle Hoffmann
so glad to get your latest update. Prayers go forth for Ron's recovery at a moments notice. We're praying for all of you. Love, Rolinda and Ted
ReplyDeleteDear Dana, Harriet & Stan, Kenny & Norma,
ReplyDeleteHarriet just called us this morning to let us know what has happened. We are sending you our positive energy and prayers for Ron and all of you. We will monitor the blog for updates. You will remain in our thoughts.
Sharon & Martin Krossel
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteWe send our prayers to you and hope that Ron gets better soon. If there is anything that we can do to help you with the kids please let us know. Our prayers go out to you and all of your family.
Thank you so much to the blogger for keeping us updated. We are all very concerned and would like to continuously be updated if possible.
Our prayers are with you Ms. Precious and Ms. Janet
Our healing thoughts and love to you all--Ron, Dana, and the boys. We wish you all the strength to get through this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Richard, Mindy, and Ezra
Dear Dana Harriet Ken and Norma. After reading all these beautifull posts and prayers from so many well wishes it has to please G-d help Ron make a speedy recovery. what a very hard time you are going through at this sad time.Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.Love Mavis
ReplyDeleteDear Dana, Stan & Harriet, Shirley,Ken & Norma...
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are with you 24/7. Take comfort in knowing that all the prayers and wishes from your friends and extended family are meant to help you through this most difficult of times. We pray for Ron's recovery.
Much Love,
Fred and Naomi
Thinking of you guys and sending our best wishes. If we can be of help....
ReplyDeleteAllan Hess & Angie Collins
Thanks so much for the update. We are thinking about you guys every minute.
ReplyDeleteJay and Debbie Schneir
Dana, Harriet, Ken, Norma and all of the other members of Ron's Family
ReplyDeleteI am praying for Ron and for his recovery. I am also holding all of you in my thoughts and prayers and you go through this. I am so sorry that you and Ron are going through this. Dana if you need me for anything at any time please call on me. Stay strong
Allison Stone
Dana, Norma, Ken or any of the Schneiderman Family, please please call me with instructions with what you need from me. I am hear to help you with what ever you need. Norma has my cell number and if there is anything, and I mean anything, please call me. I am Ron's old room mate and we grew very close from the time we met, we became best of friends and there is nothing that I would not do for that man. Please call. Robert Fine.
ReplyDeletehi evan, zach, and dana may G-d give you and your loving family strength. I am constantly holding you in my heart and in my prayers.
ReplyDeletelove cousin amy
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We are here for you and if there is anything we can do please do not hesitate to call. Love- Mark & Cara Anderson
ReplyDeleteDear Schneiderman Family,
ReplyDeleteI am a friend of the family and was greatly saddened by the news of Ron. Please know that my prayers are with Ron and all of the Scneiderman's.
Pam Schneir
Dear Schneiderman Family,
ReplyDeleteOur heartfelt prayers are with all of you at this time. We will keep you in our prayers.
Maxine and David Schneir
Scott and I have had Ron in our thoughts all weekend, and we send our love and virtual hugs to each of you. Thank you so much for keeping us updated via this blog. Please let us know if we can do anything at all.
ReplyDeleteXOOX.
Georgi & Scott
Dear Dana, Ken, Norma, Harriet, Stan and Meline Family,
ReplyDeleteSending all our love your way...We cannot begin to understand what you must be going through, but to take some comfort in knowing you are all in our constant thoughts and we are continually praying for Ron's recovery all day long.
We love you all so much,
Gabrielle, Sage and Willie Stickley
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers go out to you and the rest of the family. My heart is heavy thinking of what you and the rest of the family are going through during this difficult time. Your support network is extensive and we are all pulling for Ron to make a speedy recovery. Please know that you, Ron and the rest of the family are in my thoughts. Please know that I am here and will do anything needed at anytime, day or night.
I love you.
Michele
Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We will be here to help in anyway at anytime.
Much love to you and the rest of your family.
Michelle, Craig, Sean and Matthew Lewis
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terrible time. Stay strong and positive, we are all hoping for the best!
Lisa Tobin Jacobson
Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thought are with you during this impossible time. Much love to you all, and our prayers are with you.
Love, Margo and Ben Marks
Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. We are praying for Ron's recovery. If there is anything that you need, please know we are here for you.
Love,
Melanie, Kevin, Haley and Abby Metzger
Thank you for the updates. They must be trying for you but as you can see we all care so much....as we continue to pray.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Judy Teichert ~ San Francisco
In this difficult time We want you to know that Our Prayers and wishes are always with you.
ReplyDeleteIf there is anything that you need, please know we are here for you.
Jonathan and Maria
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wendy Gutman
Harriet, Please give Stan my love, tell him I would call him but don't want to trouble him. Do let me know if he needs anything, I really would get to Akron to help him Is there anything I can do for you? Again we are all saying prayers for Ron's recovery . love Mavis
ReplyDeleteWords cannot express our concern for you and your family. We will send constant good thoughts and prayers your way.
ReplyDeleteMichele &Todd Cohen
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do.
ReplyDeleteLove, Robert, Stephanie, Hannah Foster
Dana and family...
ReplyDeleteI know one thing that the LORD we worship has everything in control and we pray that he gives you all strenght and the ultimate favor of FULL RECOVERY for Ron!
You may not remember me: (only met you once)
I'm one of Ron's colleagues from his Old job (Intermedia) and incidentally had been trying to reconnect with him after losing contact 2+ years ago: Our mutual friend (Judy Teichert) just shared the unfortunate news with me today...As bleak as everything seem right now, I am VERY hopeful that he will pull thru this. All our Love & Prayers. (David oz & Family)
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Ron. Whatever help you need just let me know.
ReplyDeleteLove and Hope, Ed Cometz
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteI join with all of your friends, your family and the entire wide community of people that you, Ron and your amazing family have touched to send you support, love and prayers from DC. We pray for Ron's full recovery and that you will know your strength to deal with the road ahead. Hold Zachary and Evan tight and be sure to find a few minutes for yourself as best you can.
Love, Hadar
Our thoughts and prayers are constantly with you. All our love, hope, strength and prayers for Ronny's recovery, and for all of you during this most difficult time. Love, Dori, Ronnie, Brian and Lauren
ReplyDeleteRon, Dana and your entire family - We are praying for you here in Jerusalem, in Connecticut and in Florida. The Kuvin Family wishes you strength. We send our love and prayers - Jeanette & Dan
ReplyDeleteDana...Our hearts go out to you, the boys and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
ReplyDeleteRichard, Laura, Adam, and Sarah Eggnatz
May you find strength and love from those around you. We offer Mishbeirach- a prayer for healing for Ron, you and the boys.
ReplyDeleteAll Our Love-
Cindy and Ed Hirsch
Dana,
ReplyDeleteI just want you to know that my first thoughts in the morning are to say a prayer of strentgh for you and recovery for Ron. I hope the love that surrounds Ron and all of his family will help during this time. We love you guys! Please let us know if there is anything you need!
love,
Connie & Dan
Dana,
ReplyDeleteJust wanted to let you know that Ron is in our prayers. If we can do anything for you and your family please let us know.
Much love,
Barry, Dan, David and Elyssa
We wish you love and strength during this difficult time. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Love to you all.
ReplyDeleteLove, Craig, Johanna, Eden, & Jesse
Dear Dana, Audrey, Sam, Debbie etc., Sandy and I were terribly upset at the news. We are praying for you all and send you our very best. May Hashem bless and protect you. Love, Gaby and Sandy
ReplyDeleteYou both are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteGeorge, Lisa and Galton
Our love and prayers are with you Dana & Ron.
ReplyDeleteRejenna & Miguel
Dana - We just want to let you know that your family is in our thoughts. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you or your family.
ReplyDeleteThe Adaptive Learning Center
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers are with you and the children. If you need us, we'll be there.
Aunt Edythe & Uncle Saul
Dana - we've haven't met yet - I'm Kim Ellis' mom, but I feel as if I know you. She's told me so much about you. I want you to know that I am sending prayers daily for Ron's recovery and for you to find strength and courage to weather this storm. God sometimes gives us hard trials but never neglects to give us what it takes to deal with them as well. You and Ron will get through this!
ReplyDeleteDana- We have you, Ron and your boys in our prayers. Please let us know if we can help in any way.
ReplyDeleteLove
Shannon, David and Savannah Blakely
Dear Dana-
ReplyDeleteYou don't know me, but Kim Ellis informed me of Ron's condition, and I just wanted to tell you how much my heart goes out to you, Ron and your family. Please know that myself and my family are sending our prayers, love and warm wishes to you and Ron for strength and a speedy recovery.
All our love and support-
Kate Daubert & Family
My thoughts and prayers are with Ron and his family. We will say a mishibarach for him this week at services.
ReplyDeleteScott Chapman & Family.
Dana,
ReplyDeleteI am sending my thoughts and prayers and hugs to you and Ron and your families! I found out late Saturday what had happened and still cannot believe it. Please let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do for you!!
Shelley
Denver, CO
Dana,
ReplyDeleteJuliet and I have you, Ron and the kids in our thoughts. We are sending lots of love and prayers your way.
Birger
Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with Ronnie, you and the boys and we are here to help you with anything you need. I am always available, please don't hesitate to call. We truly appreciate Kenny and you doing this blog to keep us updated on Ronnie's progress as we check it all the time. Thank you!
All of my love,
Alyse
On behalf of myself, a friend of Debbie, Audrey and Sam, and my son, Noah, who is a friend of Yaniv Sapir's, our hearts go out to you and everyone in your family. Judith Rose
ReplyDeleteDear Dana Elizabeth, Zachary and Even, and the whole family,
ReplyDeleteOur hearts are hurting for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. With all the love possible, Leslie, Johnny, Elizabeth and Andrewe
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you, and especially with Ron. Harriet if we can do anything for Stan, please let us know.
ReplyDeleteLove, The Johnson's (Jim, Joan, Julie, and Sue)
Dear Dana, If you can, take a moment to read some of these messages or just take a deep breath and realize that so many people love you and Ron and want you to feel it. I hope it brings you strength. Love, Aunt Naomi
ReplyDeleteThis is Alan Weintraub. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I just found out about Ron from another family with whom I work.
ReplyDeleteI will say a MISHEBERACH on SHABBAT for Ron.
Please take a deep breath and know that there are many people rooting for Ron and praying for him.
With best wishes and regards from Alan Weintraub and the entire staff here
Hey Dana,
ReplyDeletemy thoughts and prayers go out to you and the whole family. I thanks god for all the love and support you're getting on this blog from friends and family. Thank you to the person who came up with the blog idea. I'm here when you need me. Stay strong. Love Trina
Hi Dana,
ReplyDeleteWe are thinking about you and Ron. We have added Ron to our synagogue mishaberach list and our prayers go out to you. We love you all very much. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. In the meantime, we will continue to do mitzvas in Ron's honor. We are sending lots of positive, comforting, nurturing, and healing energy to your family.
Much love,
Juliet, Birger, and Leif
Dearest Dana and Family; Our family both here and in Israel are praying for Ron and your family daily and wish you much strength during this difficult time. Kind regards, Michael Minc
ReplyDeleteDear Dana- Everyone is holding you and Ron and the boys in their prayers. Please let me know if there's anything at all that I can do for you. That's what "family" is all about.
ReplyDeleteJaimee Boettcher
Congregation Or Hadash
Dana, Harriet, Ken, Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy family and I are praying for Ron, you all and the boys. If we can do anything here in Akron you need only call. We hope you can find strength in God, and the love and support of friends and family during this scary time.
Love Marty & Merri and Family
I just wanted to send a little prayer for Ron and his family. God please put your healing hands upon Ron and make him whole once again and put your loving arms around him for we know you are a loving God. Be with his wife, boys and family to give them strength to get through each day. My prayers go with this family each and every day.
ReplyDeleteDana - I just wanted you to know that your OG family is thinking of you and keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteDeanna
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteThe Felcher Family are all praying for your
dearest Ron. And to all of the Schneiderman's,
Harriet, Stan and Shirley: you are all in our
constant thoughts. Phyllis & Walt Felcher
Dana -
ReplyDeleteWe have been thinking about you, Ron, and your family non-stop. We send lots of love and are keeping you in our prayers. Suzanne & Phil Hurwitz.
Our prayers and positive thoughts have been with all of you and will continue throughout.
ReplyDeleteHazel and Allan Greenberg
Fort Lauderdale Florida
I continue to say prayers for you as do Evie and Dickie Doodle. We all have such a special place for you in our hearts and will continue to check-in for updates. Always know how much love and support is here for you all. With Love, Heidi, Fort Lauderdale, FL
ReplyDeleteYou and Ron are in our prayers. If there is ANYTHING we can do to make your days a little easier then please let us know. We make great gofers and babysitters. Truly ANYTHING!
ReplyDeleteI have asked everyone I know to prayer for your family! Prayer is a powerful thing!
Just wanted to check in today, and tell you we are thinking about you, and sending lots of positive energy your way. Even thought we am miles away, we would love to help, and if there is anything you need, please let us know. We love you, and pray for all of you.
ReplyDeleteMuch love,
Julie, Jeff, Jenna, and Joe Rosenblum (JR4)
Dana --
ReplyDeleteRon and you and your entire family are in our prayers every day. We think of you constantly and are sending you loving, healing, positive energy always. Thank you for the blog and updates and know that the minute you give the word, you'll have help at your doorstep. In fact, when you are ready, a number of parents, myself included, have offered to help organize that help so you don't have to...
May G-d's face be lifted upon you and give you peace.
Leslie, Joe, Cassie, Sarah and Elie Wilson
My Dear Ronnie,
ReplyDeleteI can't let a day go by without sending you my love and prayers for your refuah shlema. You are surrounded by such love from your family and friends who care so much about your well being. Blessings on your head, Ron.
Dana, Ronnie told me when I was in last month how each of you is strong when the other one needs it and what a TEAM you two are. I saw you both in action and realize what he said is the EMET. You are the 'rock' now, Dana, and may God bless you with the strength you need at this moment. We are all here for you.
My love to you, Harriet and Stan, Ken and Norma, Audrey and Sam, and all the Melines/Schneidermans/Lowys.....we are all one family, and we certainly are sticking together.
With all my love,
Aunt Shirley Lowy
Dear Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy prayers and thoughts are with you, Ron and your family! My girlfriend Kim and I spent several hours playing pool with Ron after our 25th high school reunion. We had a wonderful time laughing and catching up with Ronnie, even though I don't think I won a single game. Ron's a poolshark! We will continue to pray for Ron's recovery and for God to give his family strength.
Steve Kormushoff
Akron, OH
Dearest Cousin Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur prayers for Ron's recovery, for your strength and for God's arms for your support are with you and your beautiful family.
We are praying for you and with you.
All our love,
Cousin Leslie, John and Evan Weiss
Harriet and Stan: My mom Cathy Snoderly told us about Ron and his surgery. We are so sorry, but know that our thoughts and prayers are with you Ron and his family. I have many friends praying for him too. When I had my brain tumor removed God granted me a good recovery and I pray he will do the same for Ron. And we are praying for Stan too because we know he isnt feeling well either. We will keep checking your blog and keep praying for his recovery.
ReplyDeleteSusan and Dan Davis
Dear Dana and children, Harriet and Stan, and Norma and Ken, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Hopefully all the wonderful words of hope from all your family and friends will help Ron at this time. Hugs from Marlene and Harold Miller
ReplyDeleteDear Dana,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you and Ron and your families. We really enjoyed spending time with both of you at the 25th reunion. You'll are a very special couple. Please let us know what we can do to help in away.
Love,
Andrea, David and Rebecca Price
Dear Harriet and Stan,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you and Ron and your wonderful family, and we wish you all much strength. We add our love to all that is there for you.
Beth & John Lawton
We cannot imagine what you are all going through. Our hearts go out to you. Sending you tons of positive energy.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Memrie and Matt Simpson
Dana and family,
ReplyDeletePlease know that Ron is in our prayers and we wish him a speedy recovery. We are so sorry that all of you are enduring this trying time. We would like to help in any way we can.
Love and hugs,
Beth and David Woltin
Dana,
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that you can feel all the love and support from across the many miles and from the many family and friends who care deeply about you.
All my love, Donna (Waxman) Bardin
A prayer was said this morning at Chabad of Alpharetta for Ron and the entire family, the prayers continue all day and everyday, all of Dana's friends from childhood are praying from all over the country and the world. We love all of you so much, Bezrat Hashem we will hear better news soon.
ReplyDeleteThe Sabbags and Benita and Joe Schwartz
As I am reading through all of these comments, prayers, and good wishes for Ron and his family, I am inspired by the words of one who said, "In the meantime, we will continue to do mitzvahs in Ron's honor." While we are all praying and waiting for positive results for Ron, let's all go out and do mitzvahs (good deeds) in his honor! What a powerful use of all of our energies.
ReplyDeleteHarriet Weissman
Thank you for the update.
ReplyDeleteGood night.
Judy Teichert
San Francisco
you, Ron and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers- stay strong- we love you!
ReplyDeleteTammy and Daniel Weinbaum
Thoughts. Prayers. Peace. Hope. Love.
ReplyDeleteSteve and Leslie Kodish
My thoughts and prayers are with you every day and night. I love Zachary and I will take good care of him.
ReplyDeletelove, ronnye
Dana:
ReplyDeleteSue figured out this terrible news through Facebook and then Lisa confirmed it in a phone call. We are truly sorry to hear about Ron.
Life's vainest wish is that no family member or friend will have to endure the unendurable as you must now. No one can truly appreciate exactly the pain, grief and sorrow of another, even if they have had a similar experience. But that does not mean that you are alone. You are blessed even in this the bleakest of times with a close knit family and many loving friends who, if they could, would make this go away or share some part of your burden in the hope that it would ease your pain. But in our meager human condition we cannot. All we can do is offer our love, prayers, support and the hope that you find some small solace in knowing this.
You, Ron, and your families our in our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Harry and Sue Hackney
Dana and family,
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear this horrible news. Our prayers are with you. Please let us know if you need anything. Love, Harriet, David, Matt, Steven and Jane Fisher
To The Schneiderman Family,
ReplyDeleteOur thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love, Joanne & Dick Mirman
dana,
ReplyDeletewe are all praying for all of you---sending lot's of love-----michele kuvin kupfer and family
Dana,
ReplyDeleteI just heard the news and I am so very sorry to hear it. Ron impressd me as such a nice, truly good person when I met him in New Orleans. Our love and prayers are with you and your family.
-Rachel(Leib)& Brett
Dear Harriet,
ReplyDeleteI have been keeping up with Ron's progress on the blog. I am impressed by all the love around you. I want to add my love and prayers for Ron's recovery. I wish I could be geographically closer to you at this time to enfold you with my love and encouragement.
We are all praying for Ron here in California. My son has taken his name to the Orthodox community in New York City. Prayer is powerful.
All my love to you and your whole family.
Carol Kaufman
Dana, Chris sent us the news late yesterday and I'm heartbroken for what you're going through. I want you to know that I'm praying hard for you, Ron and your family and truly hope you're feeling some of the love and support being sent from the many people who care so much about you.
ReplyDeleteLove, Leslie Wright
Dana,
ReplyDeleteThe whole Planned Parenthood family sends our love to Ron, you, and the boys. I am so very sorry to hear this news. I have known you for so many years now -- you are like family. Please know that we are joining the chorus of prayers for Ron and your family.
Love, Lori Glidewell
My dear Dana,Kenny,Norma,Harriet,Stan and Meline family,
ReplyDeleteI am glad that you are all together during this difficult time in your lives. Ronnie is a special man with so many gifts to live for. We all love you so.... He is in my thoughts and prayers....
All my love,
Jan Harris
Ken & Norma, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there is anything you need us to do in Cols. Love, Jill & Gary
ReplyDeleteDear Dana, Zachary, Evan, and the Schneiderman & Meline families,
ReplyDeleteRon, and all of you, are in my thoughts every moment. I am praying for all of you, sending strength, love, and as much positivity as I possibly can from New York. I am so terribly sorry for the heartache you are feeling right now. I feel it too.
Much love
Elizabeth Benator
Dear Ron and your entire family,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry for what you're going through, and you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
With positive thoughts and energies,
Your old carpool-mate Lynn Weinberg
Ron and Dana and family,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of Ron's condition and my thoughts and prayers are with your family. It doesn't seem possible that this could happen since I just saw you in November at the class reunion for Firestone. Please take care and I wish you strength at this time.
Your old schoolmate - Laurie Dunlop Belinsky
Our hearts are with you all; love always from your cousins Amy, Doug, Mark and Meredith.
ReplyDeleteDear "Aunt" Shirley Lowy,
ReplyDeleteI must say your messages are heartwarming, sincere and so full of love. You are an inspiration. Thank you for providing Ron's Hebrew name for prayers.
Judy Teichert
San Francisco